I am not ready to think of him as either insane or evil, to consider in full how I could love and have a child with such a person. I am not ready to think about anything, except ways in which this may still be averted.

Suzanne Finnamore
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In an era when the world is full of speculation, gossip and accusations, it is difficult to imagine a situation in which people could still be able to work together despite the fact that they have been involved in a romantic relationship with another person. However, in the case of the relationship between Gustave Flaubert and his wife Louise Colet, this was possible. In fact, there was a great difference between them. For example, Flaubert was a writer, while his wife was a teacher.

But at the time of their marriage they were both struggling with poor health and writing was their only outlet for expression. Above all, their love for each other did not diminish over time. Indeed, they remained devoted to each other throughout their lives and even after their deaths.

Source: Split: A Memoir Of Divorce

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